Feiyang Liu

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September 8, 2025

The F-Word That Will Transform Your Essays: Why Fun is Your Secret Weapon for College Admissions

This week's newsletter challenges the conventional wisdom that college essay brainstorming must be serious and stressful. Research shows our brains are 31% more productive and significantly more creative when we're in a positive state, yet students force themselves to suffer through the process. Key Insight: Using playful frameworks (like Avatar character archetypes, Marvel heroes, or K-pop groups) helps students bypass their inner critic and discover authentic stories they wouldn't find through traditional brainstorming. This Week's Action: Try 20 minutes of "ridiculous" brainstorming using any fun framework that excites you. Write in your real voice, collect moments without judgment, and build a database of authentic experiences before deadline pressure hits.

Feiyang Liu

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September 5, 2025

The College-Pleasing Diagnostic: How Much Are You Needing Validation from Colleges?

Drawing inspiration from Harriet Braiker's groundbreaking work on people-pleasing, this diagnostic tool helps high school students identify whether they're unconsciously assigning their self-worth to college acceptance letters. Through an 8-question assessment featuring real student examples, readers can evaluate if they're "college-pleasing"—prioritizing what they think colleges want over their authentic selves. The post includes scoring guidance ranging from "Strong Foundation" to "High Awareness Needed" and offers a framework for recognizing unhealthy patterns in the competitive college admissions process. Perfect for students, parents, and counselors looking to promote healthier approaches to college applications.

Feiyang Liu

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September 1, 2025

Finding Your College Path: Breaking Free from 'College-Pleasing' to Discover Your Authentic Story

This inaugural newsletter introduces the concept of "You-thymia"—the practice of trusting your own college admissions journey rather than manufacturing what you think colleges want to hear. Drawing from personal experience and insights from 78+ student applications across 19 states and 13 countries, the post reveals why high-achieving students often overcomplicate their stories in pursuit of external validation.

Feiyang Liu

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January 13, 2025

How to Stand Out in Summer Program Applications

Summer programs offer an incredible opportunity for high schoolers to explore their passions, grow personally, and gain an edge in college admissions. But not all programs—or essays—are created equal. Choosing the right program and crafting a strong application can make all the difference in creating a memorable and impactful summer. I’ll share tips on why summer programs matter, common mistakes students make in their essays, and how to write applications that resonate with admissions committees. If your student needs personalized guidance to craft a standout application, schedule a consultation today—let’s turn their summer into a foundation for future success.

Feiyang Liu

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August 19, 2024

How Kendrick Lamar Inspired the Nerdiest Diss Track of All Time

🎶 Discover (through a "Not Like Us" inspired diss track) how traditional college coaching methods often mirror problematic practices, focusing on performative success rather than genuine self-expression! Learn how Your Epic Consulting prioritizes authenticity, guiding students to align their values with their academic goals for holistic success and long-term fulfillment. By the way, go #teamkendrick! 🔥

Feiyang Liu

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August 12, 2024

College Pleasing Series (Part 3 of 3): Connection to People Pleasing

Explore the psychology and impact of people pleasing through a personal lens. This insightful article delves into the background of people pleasing, its hidden costs, all while sharing my (hopefully) relatable personal experiences.

Feiyang Liu

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August 5, 2024

College Pleasing Series (Part 2 of 3): How It Can Compromise Authenticity and Hurt Admission Chances

In today's competitive admissions landscape, forcing students to fit a mold is a recipe for mediocrity. Learn how Your Epic Consulting helps students avoid the pitfalls of 'college pleasing' by embracing their authentic selves, supported by relatable, Gen Z-savvy coaches who partner with organizations like Helivox and NAAPIMHA. Discover why true individuality, not imitation, is the key to success in college applications.

Feiyang Liu

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July 29, 2024

College Pleasing Series (Part 1 of 3): Origins of the Idea

Discover the origins of how I coined the term "college pleasing" and learn how this insightful concept can help students navigate the competitive college admissions process authentically. This reflective article explores my traffic-filled journey that led to coining the term and offers valuable lessons on overcoming the pressures to conform to perceived expectations.

Feiyang Liu

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July 22, 2024

Bridging Generations: The Millennial vs. Traditional Asian Perspectives on College Admissions and Achievement

Discover the unique challenges and insights of navigating college admissions as a Millennial Asian American raised by immigrant parents. This reflective and personal article explores the cultural contrasts between the American and traditional Asian perspectives on education, offering valuable lessons in prioritizing self-acceptance and authenticity over mere academic achievement.

Feiyang Liu

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July 15, 2024

College Admissions Fireside Chat: Insights from a Current UC Berkeley Admissions Officer

Gain invaluable insights from experienced admissions officers on how to navigate the college application process. Learn about crafting authentic essays, balancing academics and extracurriculars, and the importance of holistic admissions to enhance your chances of success.

Feiyang Liu

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July 8, 2024

Jing's Journey - How She Thrived at Cornell by Showcasing Authenticity

Discover how Fei from Your Epic Consulting helped Jing B. Li craft an authentic college application narrative that seamlessly blended her passions for business and environmental science. Learn how aligning personal values with academic goals can lead to long-term success and fulfillment, and gain insights into creating compelling college applications that stand out.

Feiyang Liu

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July 8, 2024

Maximize Your College Application: Mastering the Art of Powerful Letters of Recommendation

Dive deep into the art of crafting compelling letters of recommendation with our expert guide. Learn how to avoid common mistakes and equip your recommenders with the tools they need to highlight your unique strengths and achievements, making your college application stand out from the crowd.

Feiyang Liu

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July 1, 2024

Amplifying Career Trajectories: Lessons from the UC Alumni Panel on Early Career Success

Dive into key insights from a transformative UC alumni panel featuring notable figures from UC Berkeley, LA, Davis, SD, and Irvine. Discover advanced strategies for early career growth and learn how to harness personal experiences to propel your professional journey. This article offers a unique blend of practical advice and inspirational stories to guide you toward achieving your full potential.

Feiyang Liu

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June 24, 2024

Embracing Authenticity: A Journey Through Berkeley Haas for Long-Term Fulfillment

Explore Lisa's candid journey through Berkeley Haas School of Business, revealing the importance of aligning academic choices with personal values. Learn how self-acceptance and authenticity can navigate the pressures of elite education and lead to lasting success and fulfillment.

Feiyang Liu

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June 17, 2024

Albin's Transformative Journey: From Community College to UCLA Success

Discover the inspiring story of Albin Lee, who transitioned from Mission College to UCLA, overcoming stigmas and financial challenges. Learn how community college helped him rediscover his goals and ultimately transfer to a prestigious university. This article delves into the value of ambition, networking, and resourcefulness in achieving success at UCLA and beyond, offering valuable insights for parents and students navigating the college admissions process.

Feiyang Liu

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June 10, 2024

Andre's College App Journey: A Path to Authentic Success

Discover how my personalized college consulting helped Andre embrace his true self, overcome challenges, and gain acceptance to the #1 veterinary program and Amherst. Learn effective strategies for fostering authenticity, resilience, and long-term fulfillment in the college admissions process.

Feiyang Liu

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June 3, 2024

Should You Go Test-Optional? Pros and Cons Explained

This article will guide you through the reasons behind the newest test-optional policies, their current implications, and how to strategically approach your college application in this new admissions landscape. Discover how to leverage test-optional policies to enhance your application and align with your authentic educational aspirations.

Feiyang Liu

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May 27, 2024

5 Tips To Write a Standout College Admissions Essay

Discover how to craft standout college essays with Your Epic Consulting. Learn to weave personal growth and individuality into your essays, capturing the essence of your authentic self. This guide provides essential tips for presenting compelling narratives that resonate with admissions officers, aligning with both personal desires and family values for a successful college experience.

Feiyang Liu

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May 20, 2024

Choosing a Liberal Arts Experience Over UPenn & Georgetown Acceptance

Learn from Michael's journey as he chooses Williams College over prestigious schools like UPenn and Georgetown. Discover the transformative benefits of a liberal arts education, including flexibility, critical thinking, and personal growth. This article highlights the importance of building connections, leveraging support systems, and thriving in a competitive yet supportive environment.

Feiyang Liu

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May 13, 2024

Understanding and Navigating Rising College Costs: Strategic Planning for Your Child's Future

Explore the latest trends in rising college tuition and learn how strategic planning can secure your child's educational and financial future. Our comprehensive guide offers insights into managing costs effectively, choosing the right college for genuine personal growth, and maximizing financial aid opportunities to ensure long-term success and fulfillment.